Sex Terms

abbreviations, codes, terminology, acronyms, lingo, and glossary.
What is the meaning of (What does this mean), what is the definition of (as defined in our dictionary), and what do the letters stand for:

  • AAMP = Apartment Asian Massage Parlor. Based in a residential apartment instead of a commercial storefront.
  • ABC = american born chinese
  • ABJ = american born japanese
  • Agency = a company that manages calls, bookings, and advertising for a group of escorts.
  • AMP = Asian Massage Parlor. A retail establishment staffed by Asians.
  • analingus = licking anus
  • AO = Asian Only. AO AMP = AMP servicing Asian clients only
  • Asian = analingus
  • Asian Cowgirl = girl on top, squatting
  • ASP = Adult Service Provider, or alt.sex.prostitution newsgroup
  • ATF = all time favorite
  • ATM = ass to mouth = penis, toy, finger goes from ass to mouth.
  • attempts = trying to orgasm
  • Aunt Flo = menstruation, period
  • B&S = bait and switch = person who shows up is a different one than advertised
  • babyback = petite, young, attractive Asian
  • balloons = breast implants
  • BB = bareback = without condom
  • BJ = blowjob = oral sex = fellatio
  • BBBJ = bare back blow job = BJ without condom, beebeebeejay
  • BBBJTC = bare back blow job to completion (in mouth)
  • BBBJTCIM = bare back blow job to completion in mouth
  • BBBJTCNQNS = bare back blow job to completion, no quit, no spit
  • BBBJTCWS = bare back blow job to completion with swallow
  • BBBJWF = bare back blow job with facial
  • BBFS = bare back sex
  • BBK = big beautiful knockers
  • BBW = big beautiful woman
  • BCD = behind closed doors
  • BDSM = bondage, discipline, sado-masochism.
  • BF = boy friend
  • BFE = boy friend experience
  • birdwatching = BBBJTCWS
  • BLS = ball licking and sucking
  • Blue Jay = blow job
  • blue pill = Viagra
  • BSB = bus stop babe
  • butter face = everything looks good, ‘but her’ face
  • BTW = by the way
  • cash and dash = ROB who takes your money then runs
  • CBJ = covered blow job = BJ with condom
  • CC Rider = full service provider costing $200 or less
  • CD = cross dresser
  • CDS = covered doggy style
  • CFS = covered full service = Sex with condom
  • CG = cowgirl = girl on top facing you
  • CH = Crazy Horse, San Francisco Strip Club
  • CIM = cum in mouth
  • CL = craigslist.org
  • CMD = carpet matches drapes, typically a natural blonde
  • CMT = Certified Massage Therapist. A professional masseuse.
  • Cowgirl = CG = girl on top facing you
  • cover = condom
  • cruising = driving around, looking for streetwalkers
  • cups of coffee = releases = orgasms
  • DAP = digital anal probe = finger in anus
  • DATO = dining at the o = analingus
  • DATY = dining at the y = cunnilingus
  • DDP = double digit penetration, kitty and anus
  • DS = doggy style
  • DSL = dick sucking lips
  • Doggie = man behind girl, girl on hands and knees
  • donation = payment
  • Doubles = A threesome with two girls and you
  • DDE = doesn’t do extras (PS only)
  • DDG = drop dead gorgeous
  • DFK = deep french kissing, open mouth with tongue
  • DIY = do it yourself (masturbation)
  • DP = double penetration, two guys on one girl
  • DT = deep throat, entire length of penis taken in mouth
  • ECR = el camino real
  • EOM = end of message. No text in message body.
  • escort = a temporary companion for hire
  • facial = cumming on partner’s face
  • FBSM = full body sensual massage, typically includes HJ
  • FBSM+ = FBSM + bonus, usually BJ
  • FIA = finger in ass
  • fire and ice = a blowjob switching between hot tea and ice
  • FIR = finger in rear
  • FIV = finger in vagina
  • FKK = Frei Körper Kultur. German brothel / nudist club.
  • FOB = fresh off the boat. Asian immigrant recently arrived in the US.
  • FOV = finger outside vagina
  • French = BJ
  • French Kiss = Kissing with tongue insertion
  • FS = full service = BJ + Sex
  • FDAU = face down ass up
  • Get Brain = blow job
  • Get Comfortable = get completely naked
  • GFE = girlfriend experience, doesn’t mean anything these days. RBGFE = BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY, and MSOG
  • GFE lite = Lite-GFE = SafeGFE = light RBGFE, = RBGFE with substitutions: CBJ vs BBBJ and sometimes no/light kissing vs DFK.
  • GFE++ = RBGFE with extras (like CIM, swallow, greek)
  • GG = Golden Gypsy. defunct, famous Berkeley massage parlor
  • GND = girl next door
  • Greek = anal sex, back door
  • GS = golden shower = urination play
  • GSM = g-spot massage
  • happy ending = A handjob (usually) or blowjob after your massage
  • hardwood floors = clean shaven kitty
  • Hat = condom
  • HDH = high dollar hottie
  • HE = happy ending
  • HJ = hand job = a manual / hand release
  • HH = half hour
  • HM = high mileage
  • HME = honeymoon experience, lapdog heaven
  • HWP = height and weight proportionate
  • hooker = prostitute
  • IMHO = in my humble opinion
  • interpreter = condom
  • Italian = penis rubbing between butt cheeks
  • ISO = in search of
  • KGFE = Korean GFE, usually RBGFE except with CBJ
  • kitty = vagina (Bald=clean shaven; Partly Shaved=landing strip; Trimmed = manicured; Natural)
  • Lapdog = person who worships providers to excess.
  • LD = lap dance
  • LDL = low dollar looker (opposite of HDH)
  • LE = ellie = law enforcement
  • LK = light kissing, closed mouth
  • LMP = latina massage parlor
  • LOS = land of smiles = Thailand
  • LPIN = legal prostitute in Nevada
  • mamasan = female manager of a massage parlor
  • MBOT = Mitchell Brothers O’Farrell Theatre, San Francisco Strip Club
  • MBR = multiple bell ringing = MSOG
  • MILF = mom I’d like to f-ck
  • Mish = missionary position, or the SF Mission District
  • Missionary = man on top, girl on back
  • mohawk = thin rectangular strip of pubic hair
  • monty = streetwalker stroll: Monterey/1st St San Jose CA
  • MP = massage parlor
  • MP = multiple pops = multiple releases
  • MSC = Market Street Cinema, San Francisco Strip Club
  • MSOG = multiple shots on goal = multiple releases
  • NCT = New Century Theatre, San Francisco Strip Club
  • non-pro = civilian, not a professional provider
  • NP = no problem
  • NSA = no strings attached
  • OP = original poster, original post
  • OWO = oral without condom
  • OWOTC = oral without condom to completion
  • P2P = private to private, typically uncovered, rubbing of penis with vagina without penetration
  • papasan = male manager of a massage parlor
  • party hat = condom
  • PIV = penis in vagina
  • PL = Pathetic Loser
  • PM = prostate massage or private message (inbox)
  • PO = phone operator (for making appointments)
  • PS = private show (Dance)
  • PSE = Porn Star Experience
  • PV = private viewing (Dance)
  • PYT = pretty young thing
  • RA = relaxation assistant, masseuse in a massage parlor
  • raincoat = condom
  • RB = myredbook.com
  • RBGFE = myRedBook’s definintion of GFE (BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY, and MSOG)
  • RBGFE+ = RBGFE + bonus, could be greek, cim, swallow
  • Reverse cowgirl = RCG = girl on top facing away
  • Reverse massage = you massage her
  • rimming = analingus
  • RMP = Russian Massage Parlor
  • ROB = Rip Off Bitch
  • Roman shower = vomit play
  • RPG = role playing games
  • Russian = penis rubbing between breasts = Pearl Necklace = titty fuck
  • SC = Strip Club
  • self-service = you masturbate
  • semi-pro = someone who escorts informally as a side business.
  • SF = San Francisco
  • shill = an insider posing as a satisfied customer
  • SO = significant other
  • SOG = shot on goal = one release
  • SOMF = sat on my face
  • south of the border = gential region
  • southern france = BBBJ
  • SP = Service Provider
  • SPA = streetwalker stroll: San Pablo Avenue in Oakland, CA
  • spanish = ATM = ass to mouth
  • spinner = very petite, thin girl
  • starfish = anus, or girl that is unresponsive in bed
  • STD = sexually transmitted disease
  • stroll = path frequented by street walkers
  • SW = street walker
  • TAMP = Therapeutic Asian Massage Parlor
  • teabag = man squats and dips balls in partner’s mouth
  • TG = transgender
  • TGTBT = too good to be true
  • TIA = thanks in advance
  • Tina = crystal meth
  • TJ = Tijuana, Mexico
  • TLC = tender loving care
  • TLD = topless lap dance
  • tossing salad = analingus
  • Trip to islands = greek = anal sex
  • Troll = rude and hideous PL
  • Trolling = Posting thinly disguised ads in a discussion forum
  • TOFTT = Take one for the team. In reference to a new, non-reviewed provider.
  • TS = transexual
  • TUMA = tongue up my ass
  • TV = transvestite
  • UTF = Untranslated French = BBBJ
  • UTR = under the radar, does not advertise
  • WTF = What the fuck? (I’m rather surprised by this)
  • XOXO = Kisses & Hugs
  • 1/2 and 1/2 = half and half = oral sex + full service
  • 411 = seeking information
  • 420 = 4:20 = marijuana
  • 69 = two people giving each other oral sex at the same time